Self Defense Training - 3 Critical Differences Between Martial Arts Training and a Real Attack!

Have you trained in the martial arts? Have you enrolled in a women's self defense training program or two, but know that there's a difference between what you've learned and a real fight? Are you afraid that, if you're ever attacked, you'll freeze up and forget everything you've learned?

I understand completely. Because, before I got this area of my life figured out, I was in the exact same place. And I hear this same concern from those looking for women's self defense training all the time.

When I was a police officer, I and my fellow officers would joke that, when it came to our self-defense training, we were "graduates of Thursday's class at 3 o'clock!" And, police officer or not, you and I need to know that what we're getting from our self defense training will give us the necessary tools, and maybe more importantly - the confidence - for actually succeeding in a real-life violent attack!

Here's a self defense tip that I used to get what I needed from a solid self defense training program: I looked at what I was learning and compared that with what I actually experienced in a self defense situation against real attackers.

Then, and here's what you have to do as well...

I sought out, and learned from, teachers who could give me the tools I had to have in order to survive!

But, that leads to the questions of: "how do you know if the self defense training you're getting can be trusted?"

Here are some important differences between common martial arts training and most so-called self defense programs and a real-world attack on the street. If the self defense training that you're learning places too much emphasis on these elements... run!

1. Pre-staged training. Technique training is important, but if everything you're doing involves step-by-step, memorized strings of moves with no allowance for variations or drills for creative response and decision-making under pressure, then you are not developing the critical skills you'll need to survive! If you aren't learning to apply the skills your getting in a chaotic, free-response, and stressful way, then what you're doing is really not self defense training!

2. Coddling. While your self defense training should be relatively safe, your instructor should not be coddling you and telling you how great you are. He should also not have to deal with whining, complaining, or other nonsense about you're not wanting to do certain skills for whatever reason. You either want to be able to defend yourself against a brutal attacker who doesn't care about you, or you want to look good and show off!

3. Emotionally-sterile. One of the most important missing elements from most martial arts and self defense training courses is emotion. The reality is that, a self defense situation is a highly-charged - highly emotional experience. It is one of the most emotional situations you could ever find yourself in.

Still, the greatest percentage of training time in most classes is spent on step-by-step technique training and theory - not on learning how to stay focused and operate when you're under certain types of psycho-emotional stress - each stress-type working cause your body to work (or not!) in very specific ways!

If you're serious about wanting to learn the skills necessary for surviving a real-life attack, then you owe it to yourself to find a self defense training program that will provide you with the lessons you'll need! In fact...

You must learn things you never wanted to know

You must do things most people don't want to have to do, and...

You must experience things that will scare you, unnerve you, and make you feel uncomfortable!

If not, well - you know what your other choice is, right? And he's waiting out there for you!


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Know How to Defend Yourself Against a Bigger Attacker? 1 Secret Makes it Easier to Defend Yourself!

Do you want to able to defend yourself against a bigger, stronger attacker?

I know how you feel. I have always been short and, even though I have been involved in the martial arts and self defense since my teen years, when I became a police officer I found it nearly impossible to use what I learned in conventional martial arts against bigger attackers - let alone guys my own size!

I'm sure you can imagine just how confused and frustrated I was. All that time, effort, and training - for what? So I fully understand your own uncertainty at being able to defend yourself in a real self-defense street fight.

But, I have a secret for you... and here it is:

I learned what it takes to protect myself against a violent attacker who was bigger and stronger than me, and you can learn to defend yourself too!

Get this, almost 90% of attacks can be handled with basic skills because most attackers are opportunists. That means that if you make it difficult for them, they will go look for an easier target!

So, this is excellent news for you and I - especially since we want to know how to defend yourself quickly, easily and, more importantly, effectively! And, we can use this fact to our advantage.

I want you to think about a time when someone startled you or you were nervous or scared of something. Your body didn't charge in or stand still like an emotionless robot did it?

Typically, martial arts and self defense training classes that you could take to learn how to defend yourself take up this static positioning from which to defend. And I understand why. It's easy to learn the moves this way. But your body just doesn't work this way in a real-world, violent attack - especially when you're trying to defend yourself against someone bigger than you.

So instead, let's use this secret strategy from the martial art of ninjutsu - Japan's ancient Ninja - to defend yourself!

What is this secret? It's this:

Strategic Distancing

And, all strategic distancing is, is using proper distancing to control the attacker's ability to get at you while you're defending yourself. You can do this is by...

• 1. Being too far away so the assailant has to make up the distance before his attacks will land, or...
• 2. Getting in too close so that he doesn't have the room he needs to do what he's good at.

Warning: Do not neglect the above strategies! Be sure to take this critical, life-saving skill seriously and add it to your self defense training if you're serious about being able to defend yourself against a violent attacker who's larger than you.

Can you defend yourself against larger, stronger attackers? If you want to learn how to do this effectively then I want to help you. Do you want to know how I do it? You can learn more about defending yourself with this strategy and others in this powerful course called, "Foundations of Self-Defense Mastery."

Defend Yourself

This powerful course outlines 6 phases of an effective self defense strategy and training outline that I recommend if you really want to be able to defend yourself against real-world, brutal attackers who want to beat, break or kill you. And the best part is that it's free when you subscribe to my online newsletter.

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Reality-Based Women's Self-Defense: A Two-Fold Approach For Successful Self-Defense

by Jeffrey M. Miller
Director
Warrior Concepts Int'l, Inc

Many women, including karate and so-called self-defense experts really don't know where to begin when it comes to mastering the ability for protecting yourself against a real-world street attacker. This article takes a look at the two-fold approach that I share with clients who are serious about winning a brutal attack.

To look at the conventional world of martial arts and self-defense instruction, the typical approach seems to be to just learn a bunch of preset, receive some rank or maybe a certificate of some sort, and you're all set to go. Right?

If that's the correct course, then why are so many trained individuals losing on the streets? Why, if this stuff works in the dojo or self-defense class, are these infallible skills failing horribly on the street, when dealing with real-world attacks thrown by brutal, real-world attackers?

There are a lot of possibilities but I think the primary one is that, for the most part, these classes are simply a matter of the blind leading the blind. What that means is that individuals, who lack the experience with dealing with violence, are attempting learn something from self-defense instructors who, themselves, lack the necessary background and experience for dealing with and winning actual street attack situations.

So, what is needed to survive a street self-defense situation?

My unique take on the whole self-defense learning curve, and what I teach my students, is double sided.

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To begin with, learn as many options as possible so that you can act in different situations and against different aggressors.

Next, in the moment, when an attack is happening, target must be able to react to and handle the violence itself - no matter where it comes from or what's behind it.

Like a double-edged sword, each side is needed if the practitioner is to be truly successful. The first side, your physical training should arm you with not just physical techniques, but an understanding of the critical principles and concepts that are being passed-on by the technique models. That way, you won't have to depend on the standardized techniques themselves, but instead be able to operate in the moment, not against a classroom attack but, against whatever your attacker is throwing at you. A few of these basic ideas include:

1) Cover

2) Defensive angling and positioning

3) Rhythm and responsiveness

4) Right use of space

5) and others

The second is connected to attitude, or "heart." No matter how tough you are, or feel in class with your friends, peers, and junior students, what matters in a real self-defense situation is how you act and deal with the raw, animalistic aggression being thrown at you by a serious, angry, and violent human being who isn't pulling his attacks and couldn't care less about your well-being at all. Will you do what you must or fold? The only thing that matters right then is what you do when the moment is upon you.

This reminds me of the airplane ride I found myself on to the tiny island of Grenada when I was in the Army all those years ago. While I sat there, staring at the other side of the plane and thinking about what I would do when I found myself in a deadly combat zone (assuming we didn't get blown out of the sky first), I heard other guys farther back in the aircraft actually crying. Ironically, these were the same "heroes" who, during training exercises where we "played" war, ran around as-if they were Arnold Schwartzenagger, acting tough and telling everyone that they were ready to "kill a commie for mommie" right now. Well, here we were - here was their chance - and they were the least-prepared to deal with the pure reality of the situation.

Your training must make sure that you can deal with both the assailant's physical attacks, whatever they may be, and you must have the ability commit yourself to winning by dealing with the rage and raw brutality that is a natural part of protecting yourself. Opposite sides of the same coin. Both necessary for success.

So, review what you've picked up up till now, and insure that you do so with the eyes of a critic, not a blind follower. Check out the news. Ask some police officers, bouncers, or even military personnel who have seen combat what you'll experience inside a real fight situation with someone who wants to beat, break, or kill you. Then, all preferences aside, begin to learn what you'll need to fill in the knowledge and skills sets to make sure that you'll come out on top, and not end up flat on your back!

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Jeffrey Miller empowers individuals, organizations, and martial arts instructors how to not die or become a victim in a brutal attack situation. Jeff says "If you have a serious desire to learn the critical lessons to be a master of self protection, I can teach you how to perfect the skills necessary to successfully protect yourself against any attacker, guaranteed"